Jillian Turecki

And I kind of chuckle because when I see people make a comment about that, it's like, you know, I almost, I feel compassionate towards them because they don't realize that that's a belief that's actually what is getting in the way of them having a healthy relationship. And so I see it all the time. So yes, I do think that there's a lot of that going on.

And I kind of chuckle because when I see people make a comment about that, it's like, you know, I almost, I feel compassionate towards them because they don't realize that that's a belief that's actually what is getting in the way of them having a healthy relationship. And so I see it all the time. So yes, I do think that there's a lot of that going on.

And there are a lot of people who are carrying just that betrayal trauma of just being hurt in the past. And that's why I really like to help people reframe it. I mean, look, the way that my ex-husband broke up with me was wrong by anyone's standard and abandoning and a betrayal and just a terrible thing to do to another person. So we understand that logically.

And there are a lot of people who are carrying just that betrayal trauma of just being hurt in the past. And that's why I really like to help people reframe it. I mean, look, the way that my ex-husband broke up with me was wrong by anyone's standard and abandoning and a betrayal and just a terrible thing to do to another person. So we understand that logically.

And there are a lot of people who are carrying just that betrayal trauma of just being hurt in the past. And that's why I really like to help people reframe it. I mean, look, the way that my ex-husband broke up with me was wrong by anyone's standard and abandoning and a betrayal and just a terrible thing to do to another person. So we understand that logically.

But the story that I have about it now is so I can say that. I don't feel any emotion behind it. I process it. I'm so over it. But I can say that and say that objectively because it's important for me to recognize that that's not good behavior because otherwise then I let it happen again if I don't recognize it.

But the story that I have about it now is so I can say that. I don't feel any emotion behind it. I process it. I'm so over it. But I can say that and say that objectively because it's important for me to recognize that that's not good behavior because otherwise then I let it happen again if I don't recognize it.

But the story that I have about it now is so I can say that. I don't feel any emotion behind it. I process it. I'm so over it. But I can say that and say that objectively because it's important for me to recognize that that's not good behavior because otherwise then I let it happen again if I don't recognize it.

But I don't live with this extreme distrust and fear that someone's going to do that to me again because I understand that there was so much more to that story and I would not be sitting here today had that never happened. So it's also about investigating the stories that we have around the pain that we've had in the past.

But I don't live with this extreme distrust and fear that someone's going to do that to me again because I understand that there was so much more to that story and I would not be sitting here today had that never happened. So it's also about investigating the stories that we have around the pain that we've had in the past.

But I don't live with this extreme distrust and fear that someone's going to do that to me again because I understand that there was so much more to that story and I would not be sitting here today had that never happened. So it's also about investigating the stories that we have around the pain that we've had in the past.

developing deeper trust with life and deeper trust with life exactly so i think that goes full circle to your question about trusting life and life is uncertain it's like okay i don't want to go through that again um but i also understand the deeper meaning of it and i sort of trust in sort of whatever mysterious life force that's out there that made it so that i'm sitting here today

developing deeper trust with life and deeper trust with life exactly so i think that goes full circle to your question about trusting life and life is uncertain it's like okay i don't want to go through that again um but i also understand the deeper meaning of it and i sort of trust in sort of whatever mysterious life force that's out there that made it so that i'm sitting here today

developing deeper trust with life and deeper trust with life exactly so i think that goes full circle to your question about trusting life and life is uncertain it's like okay i don't want to go through that again um but i also understand the deeper meaning of it and i sort of trust in sort of whatever mysterious life force that's out there that made it so that i'm sitting here today

Absolutely. I do believe that. I believe that nothing means anything other than the meaning we give it. And so I think that that's a great way to look at things. And I think that that feels very true to me.

Absolutely. I do believe that. I believe that nothing means anything other than the meaning we give it. And so I think that that's a great way to look at things. And I think that that feels very true to me.

Absolutely. I do believe that. I believe that nothing means anything other than the meaning we give it. And so I think that that's a great way to look at things. And I think that that feels very true to me.

That is the way that I choose to look at things. And it's also my belief. It's become my belief. I do believe that... that greater things can happen. And sometimes we do lose something and it opens one door. I do believe in one door closes, another door opens. I believe that to be a reality of life.

That is the way that I choose to look at things. And it's also my belief. It's become my belief. I do believe that... that greater things can happen. And sometimes we do lose something and it opens one door. I do believe in one door closes, another door opens. I believe that to be a reality of life.

That is the way that I choose to look at things. And it's also my belief. It's become my belief. I do believe that... that greater things can happen. And sometimes we do lose something and it opens one door. I do believe in one door closes, another door opens. I believe that to be a reality of life.