Jillian Turecki

Yes.

Yes. So this is a very layered topic. It's an important one. So I think what you're describing is someone who maybe has, is very clings to certainty. And when this person sort of has a spiritual understanding and letting go of like, everything is uncertain and, and, and I will be okay. I know how to navigate that. It's the trust and being able to navigate the uncertainty.

Yes. So this is a very layered topic. It's an important one. So I think what you're describing is someone who maybe has, is very clings to certainty. And when this person sort of has a spiritual understanding and letting go of like, everything is uncertain and, and, and I will be okay. I know how to navigate that. It's the trust and being able to navigate the uncertainty.

Yes. So this is a very layered topic. It's an important one. So I think what you're describing is someone who maybe has, is very clings to certainty. And when this person sort of has a spiritual understanding and letting go of like, everything is uncertain and, and, and I will be okay. I know how to navigate that. It's the trust and being able to navigate the uncertainty.

There's also added to that is I get into a relationship and I just don't trust men or I don't trust women. I think all men cheat or I think all women cheat. And then I'm in a relationship with someone. It's very hard. Like, that's my issue. That's my issue is that I don't, I've been hurt so badly in the past. So how do we address that?

There's also added to that is I get into a relationship and I just don't trust men or I don't trust women. I think all men cheat or I think all women cheat. And then I'm in a relationship with someone. It's very hard. Like, that's my issue. That's my issue is that I don't, I've been hurt so badly in the past. So how do we address that?

There's also added to that is I get into a relationship and I just don't trust men or I don't trust women. I think all men cheat or I think all women cheat. And then I'm in a relationship with someone. It's very hard. Like, that's my issue. That's my issue is that I don't, I've been hurt so badly in the past. So how do we address that?

Well, one school of thought is, well, you know, that's her problem, you know, or that's his problem. And, you know, he's got to work it out. That's the highly independent, individualistic way of thinking about it. But, you know, because most things are not binary and most things live in the gray area, it's like, okay, can she take responsibility for that?

Well, one school of thought is, well, you know, that's her problem, you know, or that's his problem. And, you know, he's got to work it out. That's the highly independent, individualistic way of thinking about it. But, you know, because most things are not binary and most things live in the gray area, it's like, okay, can she take responsibility for that?

Well, one school of thought is, well, you know, that's her problem, you know, or that's his problem. And, you know, he's got to work it out. That's the highly independent, individualistic way of thinking about it. But, you know, because most things are not binary and most things live in the gray area, it's like, okay, can she take responsibility for that?

And also, can her partner develop a sensitivity to the fact that she has had a lot of betrayal in the past and reassure her and be really transparent with her and be sensitive around that? While at the same time, she's also working on that in herself. Does that answer your question? I mean, maybe not directly, but something that I wanted to add to the whole topic of trust.

And also, can her partner develop a sensitivity to the fact that she has had a lot of betrayal in the past and reassure her and be really transparent with her and be sensitive around that? While at the same time, she's also working on that in herself. Does that answer your question? I mean, maybe not directly, but something that I wanted to add to the whole topic of trust.

And also, can her partner develop a sensitivity to the fact that she has had a lot of betrayal in the past and reassure her and be really transparent with her and be sensitive around that? While at the same time, she's also working on that in herself. Does that answer your question? I mean, maybe not directly, but something that I wanted to add to the whole topic of trust.

Oh, I think there's a gender war right now that's happening that's unbelievable and it's happening all over social media. Well, that's because women do this and that's because men do that. And it's terrible to see. It's not good. Not good at all. I mean, I'm seeing gender wars all the time in comments, not necessarily.

Oh, I think there's a gender war right now that's happening that's unbelievable and it's happening all over social media. Well, that's because women do this and that's because men do that. And it's terrible to see. It's not good. Not good at all. I mean, I'm seeing gender wars all the time in comments, not necessarily.

Oh, I think there's a gender war right now that's happening that's unbelievable and it's happening all over social media. Well, that's because women do this and that's because men do that. And it's terrible to see. It's not good. Not good at all. I mean, I'm seeing gender wars all the time in comments, not necessarily.

Sometimes I see it a little bit in my comments, but I see it a lot of other people's comments because I look and I'm curious. But there's a lot of like, see, that's because he did this and all men are that and all women are that. And, you know.

Sometimes I see it a little bit in my comments, but I see it a lot of other people's comments because I look and I'm curious. But there's a lot of like, see, that's because he did this and all men are that and all women are that. And, you know.

Sometimes I see it a little bit in my comments, but I see it a lot of other people's comments because I look and I'm curious. But there's a lot of like, see, that's because he did this and all men are that and all women are that. And, you know.

And I kind of chuckle because when I see people make a comment about that, it's like, you know, I almost, I feel compassionate towards them because they don't realize that that's a belief that's actually what is getting in the way of them having a healthy relationship. And so I see it all the time. So yes, I do think that there's a lot of that going on.