Jillian Turecki

And so he actually registers as very unsafe because we need to feel like we are dealing with another autonomous being. Like that kind of boundary actually makes women in particular feel safe.

And so he actually registers as very unsafe because we need to feel like we are dealing with another autonomous being. Like that kind of boundary actually makes women in particular feel safe.

And so he actually registers as very unsafe because we need to feel like we are dealing with another autonomous being. Like that kind of boundary actually makes women in particular feel safe.

And also, you know, if the person who's constantly pleasing and never actually saying what it is that he wants or whatever she wants, once you really piss them off, then there's a rage that comes from them that is unbelievable. And so kindness is coming from someone being a good person, like a good man who's just generous because that is who he is. And that's part of his value system.

And also, you know, if the person who's constantly pleasing and never actually saying what it is that he wants or whatever she wants, once you really piss them off, then there's a rage that comes from them that is unbelievable. And so kindness is coming from someone being a good person, like a good man who's just generous because that is who he is. And that's part of his value system.

And also, you know, if the person who's constantly pleasing and never actually saying what it is that he wants or whatever she wants, once you really piss them off, then there's a rage that comes from them that is unbelievable. And so kindness is coming from someone being a good person, like a good man who's just generous because that is who he is. And that's part of his value system.

But he's not afraid to say no, and he's not afraid to say that doesn't work for me. And that feels good. No woman really wants a partner who she can actually manipulate. She may want that in the short term, but in the long term, then she loses respect and feels like, I can't trust this person.

But he's not afraid to say no, and he's not afraid to say that doesn't work for me. And that feels good. No woman really wants a partner who she can actually manipulate. She may want that in the short term, but in the long term, then she loses respect and feels like, I can't trust this person.

But he's not afraid to say no, and he's not afraid to say that doesn't work for me. And that feels good. No woman really wants a partner who she can actually manipulate. She may want that in the short term, but in the long term, then she loses respect and feels like, I can't trust this person.

Which girls do too. A lot of women do too. Yeah.

Which girls do too. A lot of women do too. Yeah.

Which girls do too. A lot of women do too. Yeah.

Yeah, and it's also, it can be hard because you're thinking, is that really how you feel? Or are you just telling me something that I want to hear? Right. And that creates a problem when you're starting to doubt that in someone because it's trust.

Yeah, and it's also, it can be hard because you're thinking, is that really how you feel? Or are you just telling me something that I want to hear? Right. And that creates a problem when you're starting to doubt that in someone because it's trust.

Yeah, and it's also, it can be hard because you're thinking, is that really how you feel? Or are you just telling me something that I want to hear? Right. And that creates a problem when you're starting to doubt that in someone because it's trust.

It's the most important thing.

It's the most important thing.

It's the most important thing.

Yes.

Yes.