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Jillian Turecki

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Well, the last one, you have to make peace with your parents. That was the biggest one and I think really intense. I wrote it because my greatest work has been trying to heal my relationship with my father, who passed when I was writing this chapter, actually. And it's been my greatest life's journey is navigating my very challenging relationship with my father and kind of growing out of that

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Well, the last one, you have to make peace with your parents. That was the biggest one and I think really intense. I wrote it because my greatest work has been trying to heal my relationship with my father, who passed when I was writing this chapter, actually. And it's been my greatest life's journey is navigating my very challenging relationship with my father and kind of growing out of that

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Well, the last one, you have to make peace with your parents. That was the biggest one and I think really intense. I wrote it because my greatest work has been trying to heal my relationship with my father, who passed when I was writing this chapter, actually. And it's been my greatest life's journey is navigating my very challenging relationship with my father and kind of growing out of that

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And so I felt uniquely qualified to write this chapter. So it wasn't just based on my professional experience, but something that I had to go through myself. And I definitely say, you know, if you've been horribly molested or abused in some way, this sort of doesn't apply. You know, it's not about making peace. And also, you can have a great relationship with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And so I felt uniquely qualified to write this chapter. So it wasn't just based on my professional experience, but something that I had to go through myself. And I definitely say, you know, if you've been horribly molested or abused in some way, this sort of doesn't apply. You know, it's not about making peace. And also, you can have a great relationship with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And so I felt uniquely qualified to write this chapter. So it wasn't just based on my professional experience, but something that I had to go through myself. And I definitely say, you know, if you've been horribly molested or abused in some way, this sort of doesn't apply. You know, it's not about making peace. And also, you can have a great relationship with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Sometimes making peace with your parents is... Freeing yourself from the expectation that you have to take a certain path in life because that is what they wanted and actually allowing yourself to beat to your own drum and take the path that you know that you were meant to take even if it could potentially disappoint your parents. That's making peace with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Sometimes making peace with your parents is... Freeing yourself from the expectation that you have to take a certain path in life because that is what they wanted and actually allowing yourself to beat to your own drum and take the path that you know that you were meant to take even if it could potentially disappoint your parents. That's making peace with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Sometimes making peace with your parents is... Freeing yourself from the expectation that you have to take a certain path in life because that is what they wanted and actually allowing yourself to beat to your own drum and take the path that you know that you were meant to take even if it could potentially disappoint your parents. That's making peace with your parents.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Making peace with your parents is also, it's making peace with the story that you have with this parent that is controlling your life. And so it's recognizing the control that it might be having on your life and then re-examining and re-investigating the story. It is learning how to relate to your parent as an adult versus through the lens of your younger self. And so it's all of that.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Making peace with your parents is also, it's making peace with the story that you have with this parent that is controlling your life. And so it's recognizing the control that it might be having on your life and then re-examining and re-investigating the story. It is learning how to relate to your parent as an adult versus through the lens of your younger self. And so it's all of that.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

Making peace with your parents is also, it's making peace with the story that you have with this parent that is controlling your life. And so it's recognizing the control that it might be having on your life and then re-examining and re-investigating the story. It is learning how to relate to your parent as an adult versus through the lens of your younger self. And so it's all of that.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And it's very important because our adult romantic relationships will reflect our unfinished business with our parents. And it doesn't have to be perfect, but it's a very important part of, it's a very important truth that will change your life about love.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And it's very important because our adult romantic relationships will reflect our unfinished business with our parents. And it doesn't have to be perfect, but it's a very important part of, it's a very important truth that will change your life about love.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

And it's very important because our adult romantic relationships will reflect our unfinished business with our parents. And it doesn't have to be perfect, but it's a very important part of, it's a very important truth that will change your life about love.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

I think I don't remember the exact moment, but I think one of the most profound experiences, and I'd love to know your thoughts on this, of being a human being and growing up is the grief that comes with recognizing that your parent is just another person. and that they're not just your parent.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

I think I don't remember the exact moment, but I think one of the most profound experiences, and I'd love to know your thoughts on this, of being a human being and growing up is the grief that comes with recognizing that your parent is just another person. and that they're not just your parent.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

I think I don't remember the exact moment, but I think one of the most profound experiences, and I'd love to know your thoughts on this, of being a human being and growing up is the grief that comes with recognizing that your parent is just another person. and that they're not just your parent.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

There's great freedom in that, but there's also a grieving process because you're grieving your childhood. You're grieving maybe the childhood that you never had. You're grieving that dynamic of, you know, perfect mom or dad coming in and just sort of like making you safe. So there's a lot of grieving in that.

Know Thyself
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love

There's great freedom in that, but there's also a grieving process because you're grieving your childhood. You're grieving maybe the childhood that you never had. You're grieving that dynamic of, you know, perfect mom or dad coming in and just sort of like making you safe. So there's a lot of grieving in that.