Jim Harris

So we're going to just keep doing this until we can't stand each other? until we're really, really resentful and bitter. So in some ways that separation, I think there was some mutual compassion of like, maybe there's something better out there for you. And then I left on this trip to Patagonia that we'd been planning for a year and a half.

So we're going to just keep doing this until we can't stand each other? until we're really, really resentful and bitter. So in some ways that separation, I think there was some mutual compassion of like, maybe there's something better out there for you. And then I left on this trip to Patagonia that we'd been planning for a year and a half.

So we're going to just keep doing this until we can't stand each other? until we're really, really resentful and bitter. So in some ways that separation, I think there was some mutual compassion of like, maybe there's something better out there for you. And then I left on this trip to Patagonia that we'd been planning for a year and a half.

And all of a sudden that trip took on a different sort of texture for me of like, well, now I get to go grieve and self-reflect and do this out of the spotlight of social media or shared friend circles. Like I can go have a month of something like near solitude and have really something else to focus my mind on and not have to have a Facebook breakup or something.

And all of a sudden that trip took on a different sort of texture for me of like, well, now I get to go grieve and self-reflect and do this out of the spotlight of social media or shared friend circles. Like I can go have a month of something like near solitude and have really something else to focus my mind on and not have to have a Facebook breakup or something.

And all of a sudden that trip took on a different sort of texture for me of like, well, now I get to go grieve and self-reflect and do this out of the spotlight of social media or shared friend circles. Like I can go have a month of something like near solitude and have really something else to focus my mind on and not have to have a Facebook breakup or something.

And that didn't quite play out the way I expected.

And that didn't quite play out the way I expected.

And that didn't quite play out the way I expected.

That was a, maybe she was just at the end of a rope with us. I'm not sure. She's like, you guys are not getting a hint here.

That was a, maybe she was just at the end of a rope with us. I'm not sure. She's like, you guys are not getting a hint here.

That was a, maybe she was just at the end of a rope with us. I'm not sure. She's like, you guys are not getting a hint here.

We did. We stayed close through that first year of my recovery. So we weren't dating any longer. Um,

We did. We stayed close through that first year of my recovery. So we weren't dating any longer. Um,

We did. We stayed close through that first year of my recovery. So we weren't dating any longer. Um,

There was some real reassessment and introspection around whether we would be more compatible now that I was wheelchair-bound, that one of the conflicts had been how much time I was away and the sort of dangerous activities I was engaging with, these sort of dangerous mountaineering photo and video jobs I was being offered online.

There was some real reassessment and introspection around whether we would be more compatible now that I was wheelchair-bound, that one of the conflicts had been how much time I was away and the sort of dangerous activities I was engaging with, these sort of dangerous mountaineering photo and video jobs I was being offered online.

There was some real reassessment and introspection around whether we would be more compatible now that I was wheelchair-bound, that one of the conflicts had been how much time I was away and the sort of dangerous activities I was engaging with, these sort of dangerous mountaineering photo and video jobs I was being offered online.

Now that I was kind of housebound, I was like, oh, maybe we're more compatible now than we were before. And then I think after some reflection, we both came to the conclusion that our initial decision to separate was probably still for the best.

Now that I was kind of housebound, I was like, oh, maybe we're more compatible now than we were before. And then I think after some reflection, we both came to the conclusion that our initial decision to separate was probably still for the best.