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Really, he started to ask us to hang out every week, and we really don't have that kind of time or energy to be able to... be that type of person for him last fall. So we follow our school's football team very closely as does he, and we would go to the bar to watch the game and he knew that. So we would almost every week go to the bar and watch the game with him.
Really, he started to ask us to hang out every week, and we really don't have that kind of time or energy to be able to... be that type of person for him last fall. So we follow our school's football team very closely as does he, and we would go to the bar to watch the game and he knew that. So we would almost every week go to the bar and watch the game with him.
Really, he started to ask us to hang out every week, and we really don't have that kind of time or energy to be able to... be that type of person for him last fall. So we follow our school's football team very closely as does he, and we would go to the bar to watch the game and he knew that. So we would almost every week go to the bar and watch the game with him.
And he has seemed to think that after the football season, that this weekly hangout can continue. And we definitely, Don't really know how to tell him that we hung out with him every week because we made time for the football game rather than for himself. And I guess I would wrap up with just a couple examples of what we're dealing with.
And he has seemed to think that after the football season, that this weekly hangout can continue. And we definitely, Don't really know how to tell him that we hung out with him every week because we made time for the football game rather than for himself. And I guess I would wrap up with just a couple examples of what we're dealing with.
And he has seemed to think that after the football season, that this weekly hangout can continue. And we definitely, Don't really know how to tell him that we hung out with him every week because we made time for the football game rather than for himself. And I guess I would wrap up with just a couple examples of what we're dealing with.
One, he makes reservations for us without us telling him that we could actually hang out on that day or go. A different example was we thought he genuinely once tried to trick us into hanging out with both Friday and Saturday that, no, I'm not going to be in town Saturday. And then I said at the beginning, you know, I really think he is going to be in town Saturday.
One, he makes reservations for us without us telling him that we could actually hang out on that day or go. A different example was we thought he genuinely once tried to trick us into hanging out with both Friday and Saturday that, no, I'm not going to be in town Saturday. And then I said at the beginning, you know, I really think he is going to be in town Saturday.
One, he makes reservations for us without us telling him that we could actually hang out on that day or go. A different example was we thought he genuinely once tried to trick us into hanging out with both Friday and Saturday that, no, I'm not going to be in town Saturday. And then I said at the beginning, you know, I really think he is going to be in town Saturday.
I don't want to hang out Friday. And then magically he was, in fact, in town Saturday and we saw him on Saturday. So, yeah, that's the that's the context. And we we don't necessarily want to break up with him as a friend. However, we just are tired of saying no all the time. We're tired of making up excuses. And then we also don't want to just hang out with them basically out of charity either.
I don't want to hang out Friday. And then magically he was, in fact, in town Saturday and we saw him on Saturday. So, yeah, that's the that's the context. And we we don't necessarily want to break up with him as a friend. However, we just are tired of saying no all the time. We're tired of making up excuses. And then we also don't want to just hang out with them basically out of charity either.
I don't want to hang out Friday. And then magically he was, in fact, in town Saturday and we saw him on Saturday. So, yeah, that's the that's the context. And we we don't necessarily want to break up with him as a friend. However, we just are tired of saying no all the time. We're tired of making up excuses. And then we also don't want to just hang out with them basically out of charity either.
He has stable employment. He has a dog.
He has stable employment. He has a dog.
He has stable employment. He has a dog.
There's a lot going on. However, we don't think he has many other friends to hang out with. He doesn't have many other friends from college to hang out with, from grad school, from high school to hang out with. That's why I think he keeps coming back to us, and it's a really big role for us to play.
There's a lot going on. However, we don't think he has many other friends to hang out with. He doesn't have many other friends from college to hang out with, from grad school, from high school to hang out with. That's why I think he keeps coming back to us, and it's a really big role for us to play.