Jinger Duggar

Um, or I have to have designer clothes to like, to have people notice me and things like that, where we can fall into these tendencies of, um, wanting so desperately to be liked by people and That that desperation leads us to bad places. And it can be where we feel like, okay, now I'm so consumed with myself.

Um, or I have to have designer clothes to like, to have people notice me and things like that, where we can fall into these tendencies of, um, wanting so desperately to be liked by people and That that desperation leads us to bad places. And it can be where we feel like, okay, now I'm so consumed with myself.

I'm so consumed with what everybody around me thinks that ultimately all I care about is myself. I don't even care about you as my friend because I'm thinking, what can I get out of you? What can I take from you instead of what can I give to you? And so I think that that is something that I struggle with for so many years, just wanting to be liked.

I'm so consumed with what everybody around me thinks that ultimately all I care about is myself. I don't even care about you as my friend because I'm thinking, what can I get out of you? What can I take from you instead of what can I give to you? And so I think that that is something that I struggle with for so many years, just wanting to be liked.

I'm so consumed with what everybody around me thinks that ultimately all I care about is myself. I don't even care about you as my friend because I'm thinking, what can I get out of you? What can I take from you instead of what can I give to you? And so I think that that is something that I struggle with for so many years, just wanting to be liked.

And growing up in the setting that I was in, you know, it didn't feel easy to be liked in that because you were awkward. you know, you come from a large family, who else does? Like I had a lot of people around me who did, but then I'm wearing skirts when I play sports in the community. It just feels weird, right?

And growing up in the setting that I was in, you know, it didn't feel easy to be liked in that because you were awkward. you know, you come from a large family, who else does? Like I had a lot of people around me who did, but then I'm wearing skirts when I play sports in the community. It just feels weird, right?

And growing up in the setting that I was in, you know, it didn't feel easy to be liked in that because you were awkward. you know, you come from a large family, who else does? Like I had a lot of people around me who did, but then I'm wearing skirts when I play sports in the community. It just feels weird, right?

There are a lot of things that were just, you're trying to fit in, you're trying to figure out who you are. And I think a lot of that people pleasing the tendencies of that, um, were even stronger maybe because I was, I was already awkward and not fitting in.

There are a lot of things that were just, you're trying to fit in, you're trying to figure out who you are. And I think a lot of that people pleasing the tendencies of that, um, were even stronger maybe because I was, I was already awkward and not fitting in.

There are a lot of things that were just, you're trying to fit in, you're trying to figure out who you are. And I think a lot of that people pleasing the tendencies of that, um, were even stronger maybe because I was, I was already awkward and not fitting in.

Yeah. I think as I was in the ages of 13, 14, 15... I just saw like, okay, I had friends who naturally were like super skinny and I would look at these girls and think, okay, well I would compare myself to them. And I was actually pretty skinny at that point. Like I was, I didn't have, I wouldn't gain weight easily, but I thought I might.

Yeah. I think as I was in the ages of 13, 14, 15... I just saw like, okay, I had friends who naturally were like super skinny and I would look at these girls and think, okay, well I would compare myself to them. And I was actually pretty skinny at that point. Like I was, I didn't have, I wouldn't gain weight easily, but I thought I might.

Yeah. I think as I was in the ages of 13, 14, 15... I just saw like, okay, I had friends who naturally were like super skinny and I would look at these girls and think, okay, well I would compare myself to them. And I was actually pretty skinny at that point. Like I was, I didn't have, I wouldn't gain weight easily, but I thought I might.

And it was that fear of just like, I wasn't as skinny as them, but I was still like healthy, you know? And I think that just the comparison that started to happen in my mind, I didn't, think properly about myself, I kept thinking, well, I'm just not pretty enough or I'm not skinny enough. So I would just try to wake up later in the day and try to avoid meals and things like that.

And it was that fear of just like, I wasn't as skinny as them, but I was still like healthy, you know? And I think that just the comparison that started to happen in my mind, I didn't, think properly about myself, I kept thinking, well, I'm just not pretty enough or I'm not skinny enough. So I would just try to wake up later in the day and try to avoid meals and things like that.

And it was that fear of just like, I wasn't as skinny as them, but I was still like healthy, you know? And I think that just the comparison that started to happen in my mind, I didn't, think properly about myself, I kept thinking, well, I'm just not pretty enough or I'm not skinny enough. So I would just try to wake up later in the day and try to avoid meals and things like that.

And I felt miserable because I was just thinking like, okay, I don't want to, I don't want to eat. Or I would think if I went to somebody else's house that I'd be like, well, what are we going to eat? Am I going to have something that's going to actually not make me fat? Or is this like, you know, that was my thought process was constantly about food.

And I felt miserable because I was just thinking like, okay, I don't want to, I don't want to eat. Or I would think if I went to somebody else's house that I'd be like, well, what are we going to eat? Am I going to have something that's going to actually not make me fat? Or is this like, you know, that was my thought process was constantly about food.

And I felt miserable because I was just thinking like, okay, I don't want to, I don't want to eat. Or I would think if I went to somebody else's house that I'd be like, well, what are we going to eat? Am I going to have something that's going to actually not make me fat? Or is this like, you know, that was my thought process was constantly about food.