Jinger Duggar

Like there's a point where we just will be so consumed with other people think about us that we are not willing to speak up and say, no, that's not okay. Like we got to stop.

Like there's a point where we just will be so consumed with other people think about us that we are not willing to speak up and say, no, that's not okay. Like we got to stop.

Like there's a point where we just will be so consumed with other people think about us that we are not willing to speak up and say, no, that's not okay. Like we got to stop.

Like kind of talk about the positive talk. I think that we're in a world where we've gone from an extreme of like, okay, we can just say whatever we want and like cut people down to the full positive talk to where it's like, you can go to every side of like, you're the best. You're okay. You're always doing well. Well, sometimes I'm not doing well. Like, yeah, you can do this on your own.

Like kind of talk about the positive talk. I think that we're in a world where we've gone from an extreme of like, okay, we can just say whatever we want and like cut people down to the full positive talk to where it's like, you can go to every side of like, you're the best. You're okay. You're always doing well. Well, sometimes I'm not doing well. Like, yeah, you can do this on your own.

Like kind of talk about the positive talk. I think that we're in a world where we've gone from an extreme of like, okay, we can just say whatever we want and like cut people down to the full positive talk to where it's like, you can go to every side of like, you're the best. You're okay. You're always doing well. Well, sometimes I'm not doing well. Like, yeah, you can do this on your own.

You got this. Like, Um, and I think that that can also be damaging because then we can see like, Oh, I don't need anybody. I can do this by myself. I don't need community and I've got it all together. Well, sometimes I don't have it all together.

You got this. Like, Um, and I think that that can also be damaging because then we can see like, Oh, I don't need anybody. I can do this by myself. I don't need community and I've got it all together. Well, sometimes I don't have it all together.

You got this. Like, Um, and I think that that can also be damaging because then we can see like, Oh, I don't need anybody. I can do this by myself. I don't need community and I've got it all together. Well, sometimes I don't have it all together.

And sometimes I need somebody to say, Hey, I think, you know, like you're being a little rough, like you're being a little harsh and I need to be able to receive that criticism and that critique because it's actually what is the most loving thing to tell me in that moment.

And sometimes I need somebody to say, Hey, I think, you know, like you're being a little rough, like you're being a little harsh and I need to be able to receive that criticism and that critique because it's actually what is the most loving thing to tell me in that moment.

And sometimes I need somebody to say, Hey, I think, you know, like you're being a little rough, like you're being a little harsh and I need to be able to receive that criticism and that critique because it's actually what is the most loving thing to tell me in that moment.

And if you did that every single day, yeah, I'd be,

And if you did that every single day, yeah, I'd be,

And if you did that every single day, yeah, I'd be,

beat down that's not always that's not healthy either but being able to be in a relationship where you can freely talk and there have been some times where you know i've gotten so frustrated with one of the kids and jeremy's like hey babe can you step away for a minute like and that whole switch off thing right like i need to hear that in the moment because i'm so i've been in this setting like and this kid's frustrated me for the past hour and it's just come to a head and i'm like

beat down that's not always that's not healthy either but being able to be in a relationship where you can freely talk and there have been some times where you know i've gotten so frustrated with one of the kids and jeremy's like hey babe can you step away for a minute like and that whole switch off thing right like i need to hear that in the moment because i'm so i've been in this setting like and this kid's frustrated me for the past hour and it's just come to a head and i'm like

beat down that's not always that's not healthy either but being able to be in a relationship where you can freely talk and there have been some times where you know i've gotten so frustrated with one of the kids and jeremy's like hey babe can you step away for a minute like and that whole switch off thing right like i need to hear that in the moment because i'm so i've been in this setting like and this kid's frustrated me for the past hour and it's just come to a head and i'm like

will you just stop? You know? And he's like, Hey, let, let me, let's take a minute. Take a breath. I'm like, I can take over now. And like, just to like talk to me. And sometimes, you know, it can feel like, okay, when somebody has a critique of me or when they say something, then it's rejection and I'm rejected by you now. Oh, I'm so embarrassed. Cause I reacted that way.

will you just stop? You know? And he's like, Hey, let, let me, let's take a minute. Take a breath. I'm like, I can take over now. And like, just to like talk to me. And sometimes, you know, it can feel like, okay, when somebody has a critique of me or when they say something, then it's rejection and I'm rejected by you now. Oh, I'm so embarrassed. Cause I reacted that way.