Jinger Duggar

Because it was like, what's happening?

It was insane. So we made it out. And I think in that, though, I don't know. I always would feel so bad to say no to somebody. To tell them, okay, I'm not going to be able to...

It was insane. So we made it out. And I think in that, though, I don't know. I always would feel so bad to say no to somebody. To tell them, okay, I'm not going to be able to...

It was insane. So we made it out. And I think in that, though, I don't know. I always would feel so bad to say no to somebody. To tell them, okay, I'm not going to be able to...

you know stay here or whatever it is like if it's a sketchy doctor's office and they're that also happened to me oh yeah about to draw blood and it was like hot in there and it was like in a sketchville and you're just like why are we here yeah but they're like why are you leaving and i was like okay we'll wait for the doctor jeremy's like get out we're gonna like we can't we can't

you know stay here or whatever it is like if it's a sketchy doctor's office and they're that also happened to me oh yeah about to draw blood and it was like hot in there and it was like in a sketchville and you're just like why are we here yeah but they're like why are you leaving and i was like okay we'll wait for the doctor jeremy's like get out we're gonna like we can't we can't

you know stay here or whatever it is like if it's a sketchy doctor's office and they're that also happened to me oh yeah about to draw blood and it was like hot in there and it was like in a sketchville and you're just like why are we here yeah but they're like why are you leaving and i was like okay we'll wait for the doctor jeremy's like get out we're gonna like we can't we can't

stay, you know? So those types of things, I'm always like trying to be accommodating, trying to make everybody happy. And I realized at the end of the day, it's not worth it. You can't, you can't just continue to, um, accommodate everyone, even at, you know, the safety of your, your own lives. Right. Like it's just not good.

stay, you know? So those types of things, I'm always like trying to be accommodating, trying to make everybody happy. And I realized at the end of the day, it's not worth it. You can't, you can't just continue to, um, accommodate everyone, even at, you know, the safety of your, your own lives. Right. Like it's just not good.

stay, you know? So those types of things, I'm always like trying to be accommodating, trying to make everybody happy. And I realized at the end of the day, it's not worth it. You can't, you can't just continue to, um, accommodate everyone, even at, you know, the safety of your, your own lives. Right. Like it's just not good.

I think growing up in the setting that we had talked about last time, just of the teachings of Bill Gothard, a lot of that was like, okay, we are supposed to be peacemakers, especially as women. We're supposed to keep our husbands happy, and so just doing whatever they want us to do and say...

I think growing up in the setting that we had talked about last time, just of the teachings of Bill Gothard, a lot of that was like, okay, we are supposed to be peacemakers, especially as women. We're supposed to keep our husbands happy, and so just doing whatever they want us to do and say...

I think growing up in the setting that we had talked about last time, just of the teachings of Bill Gothard, a lot of that was like, okay, we are supposed to be peacemakers, especially as women. We're supposed to keep our husbands happy, and so just doing whatever they want us to do and say...

A lot of those things were kind of playing into my people pleasing already and giving me even a deeper foundation of like, okay, this is how I need to please everyone around me. And so being, you know, agreeable, being helpful in every way and not thinking twice about what I actually think. And so even when we were first married, I noticed it in a lot of ways because it's

A lot of those things were kind of playing into my people pleasing already and giving me even a deeper foundation of like, okay, this is how I need to please everyone around me. And so being, you know, agreeable, being helpful in every way and not thinking twice about what I actually think. And so even when we were first married, I noticed it in a lot of ways because it's

A lot of those things were kind of playing into my people pleasing already and giving me even a deeper foundation of like, okay, this is how I need to please everyone around me. And so being, you know, agreeable, being helpful in every way and not thinking twice about what I actually think. And so even when we were first married, I noticed it in a lot of ways because it's

Jeremy would ask me like, Hey, where do you want to go to dinner? Or do you want, what do you want for lunch? And I would just be like, whatever you want, babe. Cause I was just trying to keep them happy. And, um, and that was something that I saw just throughout my growing up years, but it wasn't until I went to write Becoming Free Indeed that that I realized how much of a people pleaser I was.

Jeremy would ask me like, Hey, where do you want to go to dinner? Or do you want, what do you want for lunch? And I would just be like, whatever you want, babe. Cause I was just trying to keep them happy. And, um, and that was something that I saw just throughout my growing up years, but it wasn't until I went to write Becoming Free Indeed that that I realized how much of a people pleaser I was.

Jeremy would ask me like, Hey, where do you want to go to dinner? Or do you want, what do you want for lunch? And I would just be like, whatever you want, babe. Cause I was just trying to keep them happy. And, um, and that was something that I saw just throughout my growing up years, but it wasn't until I went to write Becoming Free Indeed that that I realized how much of a people pleaser I was.

And that started showing up everywhere because in that book, I was going to be exposing this horrible teaching that was leading us to a very bad place. And me, my friends, loved ones, and it was terrifying for me to be able to speak up against that because I knew it was gonna ruffle people's feathers. I knew that it was not gonna be the easiest thing for everyone to hear.