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Jinger Duggar

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780 total appearances

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The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that started showing up everywhere because in that book, I was going to be exposing this horrible teaching that was leading us to a very bad place. And me, my friends, loved ones, and it was terrifying for me to be able to speak up against that because I knew it was gonna ruffle people's feathers. I knew that it was not gonna be the easiest thing for everyone to hear.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that started showing up everywhere because in that book, I was going to be exposing this horrible teaching that was leading us to a very bad place. And me, my friends, loved ones, and it was terrifying for me to be able to speak up against that because I knew it was gonna ruffle people's feathers. I knew that it was not gonna be the easiest thing for everyone to hear.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that was the thing that really really made me see like, wow, I am so consumed with what they think about me that I'm not even willing to speak up for those who are in, who are still in that place. And that was the moment that I think it kind of dawned on me. It was like a light bulb moment because I felt like for so many years, I was like, I could never do that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that was the thing that really really made me see like, wow, I am so consumed with what they think about me that I'm not even willing to speak up for those who are in, who are still in that place. And that was the moment that I think it kind of dawned on me. It was like a light bulb moment because I felt like for so many years, I was like, I could never do that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that was the thing that really really made me see like, wow, I am so consumed with what they think about me that I'm not even willing to speak up for those who are in, who are still in that place. And that was the moment that I think it kind of dawned on me. It was like a light bulb moment because I felt like for so many years, I was like, I could never do that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I could never speak up against this teaching because I it's just too hard as a people pleaser. Like it's just too hard for me. And I kept thinking, Oh, you know, I know this friend who could do it because they're really bold, but that's never going to be me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I could never speak up against this teaching because I it's just too hard as a people pleaser. Like it's just too hard for me. And I kept thinking, Oh, you know, I know this friend who could do it because they're really bold, but that's never going to be me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I could never speak up against this teaching because I it's just too hard as a people pleaser. Like it's just too hard for me. And I kept thinking, Oh, you know, I know this friend who could do it because they're really bold, but that's never going to be me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

But then when no one else spoke up about it, then I realized I have to, like, it came to the point where I knew that that was something I had to do. And so I think that that moment really was transformative for me because no longer was I able to just live in that comfort and of keeping everybody happy with me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

But then when no one else spoke up about it, then I realized I have to, like, it came to the point where I knew that that was something I had to do. And so I think that that moment really was transformative for me because no longer was I able to just live in that comfort and of keeping everybody happy with me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

But then when no one else spoke up about it, then I realized I have to, like, it came to the point where I knew that that was something I had to do. And so I think that that moment really was transformative for me because no longer was I able to just live in that comfort and of keeping everybody happy with me.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I knew, okay, the second this is released, it can cause issues and I have to be okay with that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I knew, okay, the second this is released, it can cause issues and I have to be okay with that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

I knew, okay, the second this is released, it can cause issues and I have to be okay with that.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

Oh, yeah, totally. So it was like my now one of my best friends. This is like when I was first getting to know her. Right. So like she asked if she could stop by my house and it was like last minute. So she comes in and. I was standing there talking to her. I was already thinking in my mind, like, okay, she asked me to come over and I'm going to say yes, but my house is not that clean.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

Oh, yeah, totally. So it was like my now one of my best friends. This is like when I was first getting to know her. Right. So like she asked if she could stop by my house and it was like last minute. So she comes in and. I was standing there talking to her. I was already thinking in my mind, like, okay, she asked me to come over and I'm going to say yes, but my house is not that clean.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

Oh, yeah, totally. So it was like my now one of my best friends. This is like when I was first getting to know her. Right. So like she asked if she could stop by my house and it was like last minute. So she comes in and. I was standing there talking to her. I was already thinking in my mind, like, okay, she asked me to come over and I'm going to say yes, but my house is not that clean.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that's always the first thing that comes to mind as a mom, like your house will be spotless. It will look so good. And no one comes over for two days. And then the second that somebody wants to come last minute, it's a wreck, right? That's how it always happens. And they, it can look like, man, I never cleaned my house, but you just wouldn't know what a clean freak I actually am.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that's always the first thing that comes to mind as a mom, like your house will be spotless. It will look so good. And no one comes over for two days. And then the second that somebody wants to come last minute, it's a wreck, right? That's how it always happens. And they, it can look like, man, I never cleaned my house, but you just wouldn't know what a clean freak I actually am.

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Jinger Duggar: Family Secrets, People Pleasing & Fleeing Stalkers

And that's always the first thing that comes to mind as a mom, like your house will be spotless. It will look so good. And no one comes over for two days. And then the second that somebody wants to come last minute, it's a wreck, right? That's how it always happens. And they, it can look like, man, I never cleaned my house, but you just wouldn't know what a clean freak I actually am.