Joe Hudson

Yeah, of course.

Yeah.

And so, so that, and so with that will come a lot of emotions, which will be scary at first and then unbelievably beautiful.

Um, uh, um, we talked about the, uh, we talked about the, uh, self-reliant pattern.

Yeah.

That's definitely in your system.

Um,

Which means that on some level, there's a weird relationship that you have with being taken care of and taking care of people at the same time.

So I would say that the opportunity in front of you is to have a life where you're deeply nurtured.

and cared for in a way that you... Usually when somebody's in this mode, their fantasy of being nurtured is something that no adult can actually deliver.

It was something that the parent was supposed to deliver.

But the form of being nurtured that will be available to you, there will be a person, lover or business person, who when you see through this pattern will show up and they will...

be dedicated to you in a way that you didn't think was possible, where you could feel like, holy crap, like really this is like, you'll come in frustrated and they'll say, oh, I see that you're really frustrated.

And like, I know that there's something important what's going on.

Instead of you have to not be frustrated so that I can be blah, blah, blah, or whatever the thing is.

And so I think there's like a deep form of nurturing that's available to you on the other side of that pattern.

It's great.

Yeah.

Better than you, better than the fantasy.

Yeah, yeah.