Joe Loya

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2,460 appearances 19 recordings 3 series first heard Nov 2024 last heard 1 Jan

Joe Loya’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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It was all the challenges inside of us that a lot of us don't have language to process.

I told you when I had grief as a child, what did they tell me?

Don't cry.

Because your mom's in heaven.

Which compounded my pain because now I'm feeling guilty.

All that's internal.

I told you one of the worst things that happened to my child had nothing to do with physical beatings.

It was what I heard and how my body metabolized that thing my dad said to my brother.

What is that?

It's all internal.

Our internal compass is so messed up.

It's like looking at a compass that's just spinning.

There's no true north.

There's no nothing.

It's just spinning out of control.

And nobody can help us figure out how to grab a hold of this trauma.

place it down, ground it, and start working on it.

What's given to us instead is language of, you're a sinner, you're a bad person, you're a super predator, all that stuff, right?

Psychopath, narcissist.

But we're just trying to get by.

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