Joe Loya
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And now that I'm on this side...
Now that I have a conscience, now that I'm raising a young daughter, you know, whatever.
I've been out here 29 years now.
I'm a new man.
I'm different.
I have a different relationship to people, you know, inflicting trauma on people since they've been inflicted on me.
That broke me down, man.
Broke me down.
Especially when she got to the part where she said, but I forgive him.
Oh, man.
And here's the other thing, too, right?
People will say stuff like, hey, so have you tried to reach out to these women?
Who you robbed.
I'm like, what are you talking about?
That sounds like the most asinine thing, plan, idea.
Well, more importantly, this is the way I look at it.
Once upon a time, Joe Loya couldn't handle his emotional shit.
And so he ambushed him with it and said, you know, I'm going to give you all my emotional shit.
How do you like it?
And now, to me, if I was to contact them, I'd be like, I can't handle my regret and my grief.