John Assaraf

Maybe, you know, I made mistakes.

Well, what does that mean?

Where did you get that?

Oh, when I was a kid in school and I got up, you know, to give an answer, I gave the wrong answer.

A few of the guys or the gals laughed at me and said, ha, you're such an idiot.

So that's what you're moving away from.

is judgment.

You're moving away from maybe the reality that you are that little kid who isn't smart enough, good enough, worthy enough.

Good, let's address that.

Because until we address that, you're not moving forward.

So there's nothing wrong with the emotions.

The emotions are beautiful.

Eight core emotions we've been given for protection or for soothing comfort, you know, or for feeling love and appreciate.

We have these emotions, the energy in motion.

And the problem is we just have not been taught how to navigate this incredible, incredible systems, you know, that our creator blessed us with.

So we're dealing with ignorance is my biggest enemy.

Well, there's usually four things that hold people back and they're buckets.

So let's say bucket number one is going to be fear.

And there's 50 different types of fear that hold us back.

So one of them is called disappointment avoidance.