John Delony
š¤ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
like a missing piece in my heart has been filled.
And I have to be honest with you.
I have this vision of a pretty amazing relationship with you, but I want to honor you.
And so I want you to give me a picture of what you want this to look like in the short term and in the long term.
Yeah.
And let her drive.
Why'd you do that?
Yeah.
And so as a dad, we go to the next right thing.
We call the next day and be like, dude, I suck.
I completely missed your birthday.
I'm the worst.
Check your mailbox.
You get what I'm saying?
Like, I want you to, and that's what a lot of that shame comes is all the way back to 18 year old you, as much as you think you've processed it, write that kid a letter and tell him, thank you.
Okay.
And then dad's mess up and we mess up and we compound it by silence and we compound it by weight.
Don't do, don't compound it.
You're going to mess up.
You're going to say the wrong thing or whatever.