John Delony
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The deadly duo.
Yeah.
I want to tell you, I would high five you.
I mean, cause here's what, here's what happens very regularly.
Okay.
Somebody gets well, somebody loses 60 pounds.
Somebody goes to the doctor and gets their hormones regulated men and women.
Right.
And the other partner loses their role.
They lose their identity.
And so what do they do?
They create consciously or unconsciously things to solve.
Right.
Are you catching yourself already?
Co-creation.
Yes.
Okay, so if you look at this moving forward as a new skill to learn, it will set you free.
Okay.
If you look at this as a character defect or a flaw or a moral issue, it'll bury you.
And what I mean by that in real terms, if you find yourself saying, I should be, or I've got to let, or I need to, that will crush you.