John Delony

If you say, oh man, I've never shot a free throw before.

And I just totally airballed that one, dude.

I gotta keep practicing.

You'll just get back on the line and shoot more free throws.

Yeah.

And so the way this happens, dude, I love, this is one of my favorite questions I've gotten a long time.

I love this.

is this is a perfect opportunity.

I've talked about this ad nauseum on the show for y'all to get away.

Like the marriage you had is over.

It doesn't exist anymore.

Right.

And even if y'all want to do something cheesy, like get a Jenga tower and just knock it over on purpose and say, okay, we get to decide how this thing looks and rebuild it.

And for me and my wife, this isn't the question for everybody, but for our house, the question that changed everything for us is how do you want this house to feel when you come home every day?

And he might say something like, I want to come home and not feel like your fourth kid.

I want to come home and you're happy that I'm home.

I want to come home and you're not staring at your phone, but you greet me with a hug or like whatever.

And then y'all reverse engineer.

Okay.

Then here's what must be true.