John Delony

I'm used to growing up and it was minus 40 degrees in the winter and I'm from Texas.

And if it gets 60, the whole city shuts down, the state shuts down.

Right.

And it's like, that was not comfortable, but it's what they know.

Right.

Right.

And so similarly, here's the most important path for y'all.

A is setting up routines, whether it's once a week, once a morning, especially at the beginning for how can I love you and how can you love me?

And trusting each other and then having a path for, and this is what takes a lot of practice, him looking at you and saying, I didn't like that.

And you not shutting down.

You not going all the way back and being a nine-year-old girl again.

But you saying, cool, I got more data.

Sorry.

I feel bad.

How can I love you?

And you practicing saying to yourself, his vote matters as much as mine.

Two words can guide you or three curiosity over judgment.

One simple question.

Tell me more about that.

And it's a humbling moment for you because you survived on having to be right.