John Delony

Having to sift and filter through tons of emotional data flying at you a million miles an hour from a million different directions and make a call and go.

And now you're going to have to practice saying, I might be wrong on this.

And that's okay because we are deciding where we are going.

Right.

Tell me more about that.

Or getting to a place now where my wife will say like,

that doesn't feel right to me at all.

What you just said.

And I'm not going to go, what?

I'll be like, okay, let me see if I can say it in a better way.

Right.

Jefferson Fisher gave me a line one time that was really transformative for me.

As I'm saying something, when I say it and I know it doesn't land or it's not landing or it just came out how I said, I didn't mean to say it that way or whatever, a quick line to follow up with is, can I say that in a different way?

Or if somebody you know loves you and cares about you says something that just stabs you in the guts, but you know they wouldn't do that on purpose.

If you can exhale and say, can you say that in a different way?

That's the most generous interpretation of what just happened.

And you're already asking for a, let's try again.

Because we're practicing.

Right.

So if he says, hey, we need to quit eating chicken because they're putting poison in the chicken.