John Delony

Is it you're not going to do anything?

What is it?

Yeah.

And so is time.

And so are little giggles and first steps and all of that too, right?

So, so the challenge for you all is y'all have, y'all are fighting a proxy war and y'all need to get to the real issue.

And that's hard.

Couples will fight for years to avoid talking about the real, real issue.

And it sounds like,

Well, there's several issues here that are just off the top of my head and feel free to tell me I'm wrong, okay?

I love it when I'm wrong.

There's part of you, I'm guessing here that there's part of you that while you're holding your baby and you hear your husband reduce that interaction to an ROI, to a down payment on a future home that we may or may not even buy one day.

there is a part of you, or maybe a lot of you, that looks at him and says, I can't understand you.

If you allow yourself to truly feel it, there's almost a how dare you.

And the other side of it is he's looking at you and saying, do you not see, and this is his lived experience inside of his chest, do you not understand what's happening in this culture economically right now?

If you have a job, hold on to it with all of your mouth, all of your teeth, and do not let it go.

Because who knows what's coming next?

So he's looking at you saying, you're crazy.

I had a babysitter.

You went to daycare.