John Delony
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We're fine.
But we might not be fine.
Sure.
Yeah.
But that's like, you know, Hey, look, my buddy's wife lost 10 pounds.
Why aren't you?
I mean, that's a terrible way to live your life, right?
Um, my disease, does he struggle with anxiety a little bit?
So it sounds like that's where he's anchored into.
The source of safety is a number in a bank account.
Okay.
I've been there.
And I will tell you from personal experience and from sitting with a jillion people, that number, it's an ever-moving finish line.
Now he's considering a down payment for a house y'all haven't even started looking for yet.
You get what I'm saying?
And then after you get that down payment, then it will be like, well, we need the bunker ranch.
Like it will never stop.
But, but you're, you're trying to solve a math problem and he's trying to solve a hole in his chest problem.
He's trying to feel safe extrinsically outside.
So here's, here's the best path forward.