Jonathan Fields

Find the people who can say that to you in person and build something small enough to actually do specific enough to mean something together.

And hey, before you go next week, I'm sitting down with Stanford professor Tina Seelig to talk about something most of us have completely backwards, how luck actually works, the science behind it.

and why most of what we call luck is the result of deliberate actions hiding in plain sight.

So if you've ever wondered why some people just seem to catch every break while others keep missing them, this is going to change the way you see that.

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This episode of Good Life Project was produced by executive producers Lindsay Fox and me, Jonathan Fields.

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It turns out when looking for love, most people filter potential partners through a list of wants that's all wrong for them.

Bella Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy and a longtime dating expert on Good Morning America, has spent 17 years showing people why that list is usually pointing them in the absolute wrong direction, how to really find love, especially later in life.

In this conversation, we get into what she calls elevator people, those who lift you up and how to find them.

why your biology works against you when you're dating in midlife, and how attraction can actually grow rather than just appear.

I'm Jonathan Fields, and this is Good Life Project.

And the place I want to start with, Bella, is right at the beginning with the big dating fears.

We'll jump right in there after this short break.