Jonathan Fields

They show up.

They've checked so many boxes.

And they're confident and competent and strong and alive.

And they show up in almost every way possible.

As complete, as being who they are, being comfortable with who they are, having everything that they need.

Is there a scenario in which that can be perceived as off-putting?

Yeah, that makes sense.

Right.

Yeah, it's not like a spoken thing.

It's not a resume thing.

It's not a list thing.

It's a feeling.

Earlier in our conversation, you qualified why somebody might be in the world of trying to find love in the middle years of life.

And one of the things that you mentioned was if you're coming back after loss or divorce, which is, based on the statistics, a massive number of people.

So many people are navigating this moment, whether it's a divorce or just leaving a very long-term relationship, or maybe you lost somebody.

Or a long-term relationship, it came to a natural end.

It's a different experience than just dating.

There's a grief in that.

There is an identity question.

Who am I now?