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Jonathan Haidt

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Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So these are such crucial skills to learn, but we only learn those skills when we're not supervised by grownups. Because if you watch kids today on the playground, there's always, it's so sad, I don't know what it's like there, but in New York City, you go to a playground here, we got great playgrounds, What are you gonna see?

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So these are such crucial skills to learn, but we only learn those skills when we're not supervised by grownups. Because if you watch kids today on the playground, there's always, it's so sad, I don't know what it's like there, but in New York City, you go to a playground here, we got great playgrounds, What are you gonna see?

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So these are such crucial skills to learn, but we only learn those skills when we're not supervised by grownups. Because if you watch kids today on the playground, there's always, it's so sad, I don't know what it's like there, but in New York City, you go to a playground here, we got great playgrounds, What are you gonna see?

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

You're gonna see one or two parents standing near the equipment, talking to their child who's on the equipment. You don't see the kids playing with each other. It's all, each individual child is being watched carefully so that they don't fall or something like that. We're so overprotective. And we're blocking those, just the unsupervised play.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

You're gonna see one or two parents standing near the equipment, talking to their child who's on the equipment. You don't see the kids playing with each other. It's all, each individual child is being watched carefully so that they don't fall or something like that. We're so overprotective. And we're blocking those, just the unsupervised play.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

You're gonna see one or two parents standing near the equipment, talking to their child who's on the equipment. You don't see the kids playing with each other. It's all, each individual child is being watched carefully so that they don't fall or something like that. We're so overprotective. And we're blocking those, just the unsupervised play.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So what I'm arguing is that, in fact, what I show with a lot of evidence in the book is that kids used to play outside. They used to be unsupervised a lot until the 1990s. That's the decade when we freak out in America and we say, if I ever let my kid out, he's going to be abducted.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So what I'm arguing is that, in fact, what I show with a lot of evidence in the book is that kids used to play outside. They used to be unsupervised a lot until the 1990s. That's the decade when we freak out in America and we say, if I ever let my kid out, he's going to be abducted.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

So what I'm arguing is that, in fact, what I show with a lot of evidence in the book is that kids used to play outside. They used to be unsupervised a lot until the 1990s. That's the decade when we freak out in America and we say, if I ever let my kid out, he's going to be abducted.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

A lot of parents now start saying, I can't even let my kid go two aisles over in a grocery store because I heard that a kid was abducted from a gross, which never happened. OK, there was actually one case. There was one case in 1980, which sort of was like that one case. But people freak out in the 90s. And we don't trust our neighbors anymore. We've lost a lot of trust in our neighbors.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

A lot of parents now start saying, I can't even let my kid go two aisles over in a grocery store because I heard that a kid was abducted from a gross, which never happened. OK, there was actually one case. There was one case in 1980, which sort of was like that one case. But people freak out in the 90s. And we don't trust our neighbors anymore. We've lost a lot of trust in our neighbors.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

A lot of parents now start saying, I can't even let my kid go two aisles over in a grocery store because I heard that a kid was abducted from a gross, which never happened. OK, there was actually one case. There was one case in 1980, which sort of was like that one case. But people freak out in the 90s. And we don't trust our neighbors anymore. We've lost a lot of trust in our neighbors.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And what that means is that we have to supervise our kids all the time. And that falls on the mothers mostly. Mothers start spending a lot more time parenting, being with their kids. It's not good for the kids. It's not good for the mothers. The kids need to be out with each other. So that's the first piece of it. That starts in the 90s.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And what that means is that we have to supervise our kids all the time. And that falls on the mothers mostly. Mothers start spending a lot more time parenting, being with their kids. It's not good for the kids. It's not good for the mothers. The kids need to be out with each other. So that's the first piece of it. That starts in the 90s.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And what that means is that we have to supervise our kids all the time. And that falls on the mothers mostly. Mothers start spending a lot more time parenting, being with their kids. It's not good for the kids. It's not good for the mothers. The kids need to be out with each other. So that's the first piece of it. That starts in the 90s.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And then by the time we get to 2010, outdoor play is really reduced. Kids aren't doing a lot outdoor. They're spending a lot of time on the internet, on computers. And then when they get social media and smartphones, 2010 to 2015, that's when their mental health collapses. So that's the story that I tell in the book. There's two pieces to it.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And then by the time we get to 2010, outdoor play is really reduced. Kids aren't doing a lot outdoor. They're spending a lot of time on the internet, on computers. And then when they get social media and smartphones, 2010 to 2015, that's when their mental health collapses. So that's the story that I tell in the book. There's two pieces to it.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

And then by the time we get to 2010, outdoor play is really reduced. Kids aren't doing a lot outdoor. They're spending a lot of time on the internet, on computers. And then when they get social media and smartphones, 2010 to 2015, that's when their mental health collapses. So that's the story that I tell in the book. There's two pieces to it.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

Yes.

Unashamed with the Robertson Family
Ep 1062 | Send Your Kids Outside Again: Free-Range Parent Like a Robertson

Yes.