Jonathan Pokluda

And ladies, if a God-fearing man asks you out, give him a chance. Because I can't tell you how many marriages I've done, how many weddings I've done where the wife is telling me I was not at all attracted to him at first. but I got to know him and now he's the greatest thing. And I hear that all the time. So if a God-fearing man asks you out, give him a chance.

And ladies, if a God-fearing man asks you out, give him a chance. Because I can't tell you how many marriages I've done, how many weddings I've done where the wife is telling me I was not at all attracted to him at first. but I got to know him and now he's the greatest thing. And I hear that all the time. So if a God-fearing man asks you out, give him a chance.

And men, ask out the godliest woman that you know, even if she's not your epitome of attraction, she's not what you thought. Give heart a chance. Because 1 Samuel 16 says, God says, hey, I do not look at the outward appearance. I look at the heart. Ladies ask me, I do a Friday Q&A every Friday. I answer questions on this. And ladies are like, hey, this super God-fearing man asked me out.

And men, ask out the godliest woman that you know, even if she's not your epitome of attraction, she's not what you thought. Give heart a chance. Because 1 Samuel 16 says, God says, hey, I do not look at the outward appearance. I look at the heart. Ladies ask me, I do a Friday Q&A every Friday. I answer questions on this. And ladies are like, hey, this super God-fearing man asked me out.

And men, ask out the godliest woman that you know, even if she's not your epitome of attraction, she's not what you thought. Give heart a chance. Because 1 Samuel 16 says, God says, hey, I do not look at the outward appearance. I look at the heart. Ladies ask me, I do a Friday Q&A every Friday. I answer questions on this. And ladies are like, hey, this super God-fearing man asked me out.

He's so great. He's an incredible leader. Everybody loves him and respects him, but I don't find him attractive. And I'm like, you don't find godliness attractive? You don't find leadership capabilities attractive? What do you find attractive?

He's so great. He's an incredible leader. Everybody loves him and respects him, but I don't find him attractive. And I'm like, you don't find godliness attractive? You don't find leadership capabilities attractive? What do you find attractive?

He's so great. He's an incredible leader. Everybody loves him and respects him, but I don't find him attractive. And I'm like, you don't find godliness attractive? You don't find leadership capabilities attractive? What do you find attractive?

And if it is only, well, six pack abs, six figure salary, pre-med, if it's only these things that Hollywood told you to find attractive, I would just make sure that it's the scripture that's informing what we find attractive and not Hollywood, which has the highest divorce rate on planet earth. Okay.

And if it is only, well, six pack abs, six figure salary, pre-med, if it's only these things that Hollywood told you to find attractive, I would just make sure that it's the scripture that's informing what we find attractive and not Hollywood, which has the highest divorce rate on planet earth. Okay.

And if it is only, well, six pack abs, six figure salary, pre-med, if it's only these things that Hollywood told you to find attractive, I would just make sure that it's the scripture that's informing what we find attractive and not Hollywood, which has the highest divorce rate on planet earth. Okay.

Like, isn't it ironic that the people who are the worst at marriage get to inform what we should look for in marriage? Whoa. Isn't that ironic? That's crazy. It's like, we got to hit reset on this thing, man. We got to go back to the basics and people are going to argue with this episode because I've been having these arguments for over a decade now.

Like, isn't it ironic that the people who are the worst at marriage get to inform what we should look for in marriage? Whoa. Isn't that ironic? That's crazy. It's like, we got to hit reset on this thing, man. We got to go back to the basics and people are going to argue with this episode because I've been having these arguments for over a decade now.

Like, isn't it ironic that the people who are the worst at marriage get to inform what we should look for in marriage? Whoa. Isn't that ironic? That's crazy. It's like, we got to hit reset on this thing, man. We got to go back to the basics and people are going to argue with this episode because I've been having these arguments for over a decade now.

And so you're going to argue with me in your head, but just, just consider what I'm saying prayerfully. Like you're looking for someone. Dating is the job interview. So what's the position? as a wife or a husband, a mother or a father to your children, consider what the position is and then consider what you're looking for.

And so you're going to argue with me in your head, but just, just consider what I'm saying prayerfully. Like you're looking for someone. Dating is the job interview. So what's the position? as a wife or a husband, a mother or a father to your children, consider what the position is and then consider what you're looking for.

And so you're going to argue with me in your head, but just, just consider what I'm saying prayerfully. Like you're looking for someone. Dating is the job interview. So what's the position? as a wife or a husband, a mother or a father to your children, consider what the position is and then consider what you're looking for.

Because I see people all the time marry someone who's super hot by the world's standards, but they make a miserable spouse and they get stuck in a miserable marriage. Then they become roommates. They married for what they thought was gonna be incredible sex. Nobody's having sex. They're not even sleeping in the same room. They are roommates or less than.

Because I see people all the time marry someone who's super hot by the world's standards, but they make a miserable spouse and they get stuck in a miserable marriage. Then they become roommates. They married for what they thought was gonna be incredible sex. Nobody's having sex. They're not even sleeping in the same room. They are roommates or less than.

Because I see people all the time marry someone who's super hot by the world's standards, but they make a miserable spouse and they get stuck in a miserable marriage. Then they become roommates. They married for what they thought was gonna be incredible sex. Nobody's having sex. They're not even sleeping in the same room. They are roommates or less than.