Jonny

And so ultimately we defer gratification

for or we feel like we're suffering the most in the thing that we're most deficient in so whether it's money or time or friendships or whatever that's like the thing which is like the the alligator at the boat and whoever has something like that it's like the drowning man wanting air they feel like that is the thing which if they solve it life would be complete and

for or we feel like we're suffering the most in the thing that we're most deficient in so whether it's money or time or friendships or whatever that's like the thing which is like the the alligator at the boat and whoever has something like that it's like the drowning man wanting air they feel like that is the thing which if they solve it life would be complete and

for or we feel like we're suffering the most in the thing that we're most deficient in so whether it's money or time or friendships or whatever that's like the thing which is like the the alligator at the boat and whoever has something like that it's like the drowning man wanting air they feel like that is the thing which if they solve it life would be complete and

So like in cell forums, they're obsessed with like, if I could just get a girlfriend, then I'd be totally fine. And the weird thing about all of this, I think when I kind of reflect on this is that

So like in cell forums, they're obsessed with like, if I could just get a girlfriend, then I'd be totally fine. And the weird thing about all of this, I think when I kind of reflect on this is that

So like in cell forums, they're obsessed with like, if I could just get a girlfriend, then I'd be totally fine. And the weird thing about all of this, I think when I kind of reflect on this is that

the domains of life that we have sorted and most of us like watching this you know you if you're watching this hopefully you're healthy you have access to being outside you're not in prison you you know you have central heating like all this stuff like physical health and time and family and son and all that stuff is just fully available in abundance but we just go i know but i need another two grand or i need another whatever and so um

the domains of life that we have sorted and most of us like watching this you know you if you're watching this hopefully you're healthy you have access to being outside you're not in prison you you know you have central heating like all this stuff like physical health and time and family and son and all that stuff is just fully available in abundance but we just go i know but i need another two grand or i need another whatever and so um

the domains of life that we have sorted and most of us like watching this you know you if you're watching this hopefully you're healthy you have access to being outside you're not in prison you you know you have central heating like all this stuff like physical health and time and family and son and all that stuff is just fully available in abundance but we just go i know but i need another two grand or i need another whatever and so um

I guess the lesson is to stop moving the goalposts, or if you do, recognise that it's just a game that we're playing, but you can still recognise that you are happy right now and all that suffering of the gap is just caused by the mind.

I guess the lesson is to stop moving the goalposts, or if you do, recognise that it's just a game that we're playing, but you can still recognise that you are happy right now and all that suffering of the gap is just caused by the mind.

I guess the lesson is to stop moving the goalposts, or if you do, recognise that it's just a game that we're playing, but you can still recognise that you are happy right now and all that suffering of the gap is just caused by the mind.

So Felix Dennis has a book called How to Get Rich, which is... He's made it really distasteful in the way that it's branded and stuff, and he's sat there like a maniacal monocle and... You know, the kind of... Because... He's trying to paint this picture that you set that as the goal.

So Felix Dennis has a book called How to Get Rich, which is... He's made it really distasteful in the way that it's branded and stuff, and he's sat there like a maniacal monocle and... You know, the kind of... Because... He's trying to paint this picture that you set that as the goal.

So Felix Dennis has a book called How to Get Rich, which is... He's made it really distasteful in the way that it's branded and stuff, and he's sat there like a maniacal monocle and... You know, the kind of... Because... He's trying to paint this picture that you set that as the goal.

He says, I'm writing this at the age of 83, and if you're reading this book, I would swap places with you in a heartbeat because you have the one thing that I don't, which is time. I've made my $300 million or whatever to then go and sit in a wood cabin and write poetry. I could have done that at 30.

He says, I'm writing this at the age of 83, and if you're reading this book, I would swap places with you in a heartbeat because you have the one thing that I don't, which is time. I've made my $300 million or whatever to then go and sit in a wood cabin and write poetry. I could have done that at 30.

He says, I'm writing this at the age of 83, and if you're reading this book, I would swap places with you in a heartbeat because you have the one thing that I don't, which is time. I've made my $300 million or whatever to then go and sit in a wood cabin and write poetry. I could have done that at 30.

It never does. It's, as Frankel says, it's one of the three insatiable desires, money, sex, and power. And you can keep chasing them. So, I mean, Wilkinson was talking about his mate who was like a multi-billionaire And was like, oh, but Jeff, he's like really rich though, isn't he? And he was like, but what can Jeff afford that you can't? And they're like, oh, super yacht. All right. Okay.