Jonquilyn Hill

Hey, y'all. I'm John Glenn Hill, and this is Explain It To Me, your hotline for the questions that matter most to you. We recently got a call from Rohan.

He wants to know why people in their 20s and 30s are dating less.

He wants to know why people in their 20s and 30s are dating less.

He wants to know why people in their 20s and 30s are dating less.

He's asking because he's been having his own trouble on the dating scene. The state of dating, particularly for men, has been everywhere.

He's asking because he's been having his own trouble on the dating scene. The state of dating, particularly for men, has been everywhere.

He's asking because he's been having his own trouble on the dating scene. The state of dating, particularly for men, has been everywhere.

Producer Hadi Mawagdi knows about them firsthand. Okay, Hadi, you were pretty excited about taking this question from Rohan. Why was that?

Producer Hadi Mawagdi knows about them firsthand. Okay, Hadi, you were pretty excited about taking this question from Rohan. Why was that?

Producer Hadi Mawagdi knows about them firsthand. Okay, Hadi, you were pretty excited about taking this question from Rohan. Why was that?

Yeah. And you piqued my interest. I wanted to hear more about how it's going for Rohan.

Yeah. And you piqued my interest. I wanted to hear more about how it's going for Rohan.

Yeah. And you piqued my interest. I wanted to hear more about how it's going for Rohan.

Yeah, I'm curious. Do you and your friends ever talk about this? Like, what kind of conversations do you guys have with each other about this?

Yeah, I'm curious. Do you and your friends ever talk about this? Like, what kind of conversations do you guys have with each other about this?

Yeah, I'm curious. Do you and your friends ever talk about this? Like, what kind of conversations do you guys have with each other about this?

Yeah, I definitely get what you mean. Like, you know, I've seen my fair share of colorism in dating, especially in my early 20s. It sounds like you use dating apps. Do you mind telling me which ones you're on?

Yeah, I definitely get what you mean. Like, you know, I've seen my fair share of colorism in dating, especially in my early 20s. It sounds like you use dating apps. Do you mind telling me which ones you're on?

Yeah, I definitely get what you mean. Like, you know, I've seen my fair share of colorism in dating, especially in my early 20s. It sounds like you use dating apps. Do you mind telling me which ones you're on?

Ooh, okay. I am well-versed in all three of these apps. Okay, walk me through your approach. So, like, say you're on an app, you see a woman you want to match with. Like, what's the next step?