Jordan Harbinger

Like, now I feel like a creep.

Well, I think that's the fear, that he felt a little uncomfortable and exposed because you were not joining in and making it safe for him to talk about that stuff.

Which I get, you know, maybe he felt judged by me or like I was trying to be superior, which was not my intention.

But also, you know, I got to know this guy and he did not strike me as a creep at all.

He was just like talking.

For sure.

But there's a social pressure baked into these moments that's tricky, right?

It is tricky.

And thinking back, I guess I didn't want to talk about it because in my mind I was like, I just met this guy.

I don't know if he's going to tell someone else about this conversation and then somehow it gets back to Jill, whom I like, and then it's weird or it gets misconstrued.

So I'm just going to be quiet.

Yeah, that is smart.

But also, I don't know, maybe I am a little bit of a square in this way, because I guess I was thinking Jill is cool and she's smart and she's good at this job and she's nice.

And I feel weird only talking about how hot she is with a total stranger.

So I kind of feel weird only talking about how hot she is with a guy I met like a week ago.

So anyway, the reason I bring this up is, is what that guy said in the car inappropriate?

Good question.

Well, I feel like we're rehashing the entire 2016 presidential election right now somehow.

Is this locker room talk?

Is this management consultant carpool talk?