Jordan Harbinger

The baby's due in three months.

Let's set a date for us to find you a new home and get you set up.

I'll still be involved.

I'll still be close.

I still love you.

And you have a place to live until we find an apartment.

You don't have to worry about that.

But it's time to find a solution that works for all of us.

I like that a lot.

And then I would have the larger conversation about what she's been asking you to do for her, what you're going to need from her to make this work, namely basic financial responsibility.

I know it's hard to imagine saying this to your mom, but I feel like she needs to understand the position she's put you in, the ways in which she's just not holding up her end of the bargain.

Now, given the history here, she might not go, oh, a boundary.

I love boundaries.

I love hearing that I'm not holding up my end of the bargain and I won't be able to squat with my son indefinitely.

Totally respect that.

So I'd be prepared for any number of responses from her when you have this conversation.

The together piece is big, I think.

She needs to step up here.

Right.

But what's interesting is then he feels other feelings, resentment, frustration, stress.