Jordana Abraham

It's a big, because it, and it's not because it's because you're not necessarily who you are going to be.

Like how different are you than you were at 21?

And I think that you could easily grow apart from,

from someone that you met at 21 and not be that not... And your lives could go in different directions that you're both not looking for by the time you're 25, 30, whatever it is.

And I think that's sort of like... This is like a little bit of a cautionary tale about that.

It's not that anyone did anything wrong.

It's that you both are kind of discovering you're different people.

You're turning into different people.

If they grow the same.

Yes, it can work if you grow the same way.

But a lot of, many of the times, which is why you would hear about, we got married young.

But yeah, I think that's kind of like, that's why it's a trope of like, we got married young and it didn't work out.

It's not necessarily someone's fault.

I think it's the kind of thing where like, it's possible it could work, but it's less likely to work than if you met someone at 30 when you're a little bit more of your fully formed...

self.

That's why I'm saying I don't think either of them is wrong.

To me, this isn't a case of she's wrong, he's right, or he's wrong, she's right.

It's more like you naturally want different things for this period of your life, which makes total sense.

This is the age where that would happen, where you would grow in different directions.

21, you're literally in college.