Jordana Abraham

So I don't know who knows where they're going to be.

Right.

Where are you going to go?

Right.

Right.

You know, she's in, here's also the other thing is like, she's invested in making it work.

If the, it takes two people to be invested in making it work for it to work, especially at this age.

I mean, they got married, so that makes it obviously more serious, but like no kids, I don't know if their finances are intertwined, but at this point he's kind of like, I'd rather just find someone who's more similar to me or who wants, who likes that I'm a DJ or likes that I'm doing all this shit.

Yeah, I would agree.

Which he probably should have thought about before he got married, but people make mistakes.

Yeah.

And again, this is sort of the issue with that intensive a commitment that young.

If you met, you could obviously change at any point.

You could change your personality.

You could change the way you are.

But you at 41 with like, Emily, if you got married, could you be a different person in like five, 10 years?

Maybe a little bit, but you're generally like the person that you have...

are going to be in life by now.

And I probably feel closer to her in my relationship than you.

And then I met Mike at 27 when he was living with a roommate in Murray Hill.