Jordana Abraham

So I'm like, that feels like a very different person than I'm with right now.

In the beginning, yeah.

I think there was like a time when he was working all the time and it was more like the amount of time and hours that he was spending doing that.

But I think as I've gotten older, the perspective on it shifts and like so many other things with the perspective on it shifts and just the lifestyle is so different.

Like when we met, we were going to pregames together.

But if one, but if like he was, if he was 36 and he still wanted to be going to pregames and stayed the same person he was when he was 27.

Yeah.

Or became, or went in a different direction and became a third scenario where it didn't feel like he was compatible with me.

I could see the relationship not having worked out.

You have to either grow together or you grow apart.

And neither would have been like, it would have been, wouldn't have been always doing something wrong because he still wants to do this.

It would have just been growing apart.

yeah you know who he is you know who he is and you know kind of what the that their safety their house is built right i mean i can understand i can understand the appeal in both directions you're like if you were your age wanting to date someone younger less established you're like this person doesn't necessarily have the strong footing on their own they can mold to my life

Well, I also think women mature faster in that way.

Yeah, definitely agree with that.

Yeah, I think it all factors into this thing.

And that's why when she's writing this, if someone were to...

I would have guessed more in the breakup direction than not, not knowing anything else besides their age.

So I think it's- Is that why men say I don't believe in therapy?

It's weird to say I don't believe in it, like she's asking him to go to a mystic.