Jordana Abraham

That's what I'm saying.

And, like, I think...

What she needs to do is just communicate this.

I think, again, I hate to bring up this example because I do it all the time, but I talk about the cards with Mike.

It's not his first instinct to be writing, loving, doting cards.

And then the first time that he got me a card, I was irritated because I didn't tell him that.

Now I tell him that, he does what I want.

Not with a trip, but other things.

Other things, I think.

Like, you know, what are you going to do for my birthday?

Or, you know, how are you going to act at this wedding?

Because there was something tangible that was missing or they didn't do or did do or because you just didn't.

you like weren't feeling the person as a whole as a match for you.

From this trip.

No, I do think a trip is like a lot of days, long trip, date.

Right.

Well, I think the thing that, that makes me feel that way about her email is like the, I think, I think like fuck the scar stargazing, like the romantic activities.

If she's talking about the intimacy level, like the emotional intimacy level in general.

I think that's a different thing.

Right.