Jordana Abraham

I suggest that he should get an outlet for himself like working out, hobbies, friends, etc.

But he gets defensive and says I'm being controlling and trying to dictate how he spends his time and he should be able to make decisions for himself.

And this is where I'm stuck.

Am I asking for a reasonable level of partnership from someone I live with?

Or am I unfairly asking him to change a lifestyle that genuinely works for him just because it doesn't work for me?

Basically, how do you know when this person is just very hardworking turns into this relationship structure is incompatible?

Sincerely, I bet you his relationship could use some home improvement.

Something smells off to me here.

That's one option I was thinking of.

I would love to hear what you think.

I think that's one option.

He's got something else going on on the side.

Two, he's checked out of this relationship and trying to be around her as little as possible.

And three, he's working extra hours for a ring that he wants to surprise you with.

And it's a perfect.

It's working hard for a big present.

Right.

Try emotionally checked out and trying to be around you as little as possible.

Yes.

And is the most romantic guy ever.