Josh (Caller)

Yeah.

I think maybe the first thing you do is you maybe open up those lines of communication and then you can better assess the situation.

But it sounds like now is not the time to give him money.

Okay.

Now, I would be concerned about her.

If you're looking and seeing that maybe she doesn't have some of the things that she needs in a serious way, I might step in for some things seriously.

To help with her.

And I would do that in a very protected way.

Does that make sense?

Like if you if you look over and realize, oh, my gosh, they don't have like the heat's not on or something like that.

I might reach over and pay that that, you know, either have her come stay with me or just pay the bill directly.

Something like that.

I could see wanting to help a minor.

OK, today's question comes from Madison in Colorado.

She says, my husband and I just celebrated our third anniversary.

We're debt free and currently working on baby step three.

We both work full time and after saving our emergency fund, the plan is to save as much as possible before our first child is born.

My husband is changing careers and wants to wait a few months until he settled into his new career with a better paying job so he feels more confident in providing for our future family.

I would love your advice on this.

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