Josh (Caller)

First off, let me just say it is 100 percent your choice.

Like I can tell you my thoughts, but it's your choice.

It's your family.

It's your life.

I don't think there's anything wrong with family planning.

And this is kind of part of that, right?

You're saying, here's what we want our life to look like.

And the biggest part of that is whether you both agree on it.

And I'm saying that my husband and I, we made the decision that we wanted certain things in place before we started a family.

And that was something that we agreed on.

And there were moments where I was like, do I still, it was like something we had to check back in on.

Right.

Because for us, the idea was, hey, we'll pay off debt and then we'll start a family.

But we also knew that that was a long journey to pay off the debt.

So it was kind of like checking back in, like, are we still good on this?

Because it's three years in.

Are we still good?

You know, so if you both agree and you both agree.

like the idea of whatever that is, him making X amount of dollars or whatever that goal is, then that's fine for now.

But maybe you set it up and say, okay, like every six months, we're just going to revisit this.