Josh (Caller)

It can change.

Life can always change.

I know it did for us.

Now, there is one thing I will say about what you wrote, Madison.

And I'll say this is giving me a little bit of like a, I don't know what, the fact that you said we both feel sad and stressed about waiting.

That's the part to me that I'm like, I don't know about that.

Because

For me, it gave me more peace to wait because I was like, I feel better waiting until I'm in a better spot.

I feel more stressed about if I were to get pregnant today.

So the fact that your emotions, and don't get me wrong, sometimes our emotions don't line up with what we're doing in a moment.

But for something like this, I kind of feel like they should.

Uh-huh.

You should feel good about the decisions you're making in this area.

But come on.

So, and your situation, I'm like, you're, if there were a crazy situation, yours is not it.

You know what I mean?

Like, you're not like I'm in bankruptcy and we have nine.

I want, we have nine kids and we want to have a 10th.

I'd be like, what's wrong with you?

Totally.