Josh Clark

It's events, things, anything.

A dandelion can be entirely evil or fully good.

And because you see things and people and events as entirely one way or the other –

You set people up for unrealistic expectations.

If you're like, you're 100% pure and kind person and I love you, that person is inevitably going to let you down in some way, shape, or form because no one's 100% pure and kind.

Similarly, no one's 100% evil.

And most people that you would label evil as if you have BPD probably aren't evil at all.

They just did something you really didn't like.

But now to you, that person is evil, not not to be trusted, not, you know, they did something wrong at their core.

They're evil.

And that's another huge hallmark of BPD as well.

But boy, did he get pale as he aged.

Does that make sense?

Yeah, no, totally.

It's also circumstantial too.

They might act different ways to different people depending on what they think those people want from them.

Or yes, to impress like a friend or a new person or something like that, they might adopt that person's

like hobbies and interests.

But I saw it explained as the people who have BPD and do that, that they don't understand where they end or the other person begins because they have no idea what they believe in.

They just don't know.