Josh Laura

I live in the future.

I'm going this way.

And so it's not a manipulation tactic to get women to feel bad for him, right?

He's able to seduce them with his money and his handsomeness and his job.

But the emotional stuff, he's not wielding as a weapon to sort of entrap and ensnare women.

Don't go anywhere.

You are trained in society that if you date men, their needs will come before yours.

I think the neediness is what I really want to hone in on because it's like,

I make a lot of videos because my training is in sociology.

I did a master's and my focus was on cohabitation, marriage and divorce.

So I've been literally reading and studying all this data for 10 years.

Women, millennial women, so women our age were sort of given this idea that like we were going to be

in these we um that you were going to be in these marriages that were like completely egalitarian and 10 years later with the oldest millennials being 45 they're now learning that the data for the last 10 years have been saying well no because now women have full-time jobs but they still have to come home and cook clean take care of the kids help the kids with their homework do the pickup and so men's lives haven't fundamentally changed in any real way in the last 20 years

Whereas women are like, well, now I have a master's and I have a full-time job and I'm a surgeon and I'm this and I'm that.

But I still have to go to the PTA meeting and I still have to help Joey with his homework and I still have to take on another full-time job.

Yeah.

That's the second shift of it all.

And so I think what, in my sort of experience dating over the last 10 years has been, or 15 years, 15 years.

Oh my God.

Dating over the last 15 years.