Josh Laura

Why aren't we happy that more men are like,

I need my partner to be there for me in X, Y, and Z ways.

But I also will say, why is it always that their needs come first?

Why are they always the main character in the relationship?

Why are they always like, in the fictional sense, why are these stories being centered?

And I've talked about this with regards to Bravo.

I think that there is this sort of weird double consciousness, like tension in American society where it's like, all men are evil and all men are out to get you until they actually hurt you.

And then it's, they didn't mean to, they didn't know what they were doing.

And yet the fandom is still like, I love them.

I love them so much.

I'm like, this is manipulation.

It's shocking to me because I feel like I see it.

And obviously this is, again, sociology, blah, blah, blah.

I'm like, because everything is a performance, I see the performance.

And so many people are just like falling hook, line, and sinker for this thing where it's like, he's just sad.

And I'm like, he is sad on purpose to get you.

This is what he's doing.

Why do you think I'm so passionate about this?

Oh, that's a great question.

I think I wrote about the whole Rap Boy, Soft Boy, Baby Girl thing at the end of 2025.