Joy Kahn

Right. And trust is something you develop as you're in it. So you're experiencing something and you recognize that I'll always be here for me, no matter the experience. Now we trust, right? So trust isn't, it's going to be perfect. It's going to work out the way I need it to. It's, I'm always going to be there for me, no matter how it works out. Right? That's trust.

Right. And trust is something you develop as you're in it. So you're experiencing something and you recognize that I'll always be here for me, no matter the experience. Now we trust, right? So trust isn't, it's going to be perfect. It's going to work out the way I need it to. It's, I'm always going to be there for me, no matter how it works out. Right? That's trust.

I love this conversation because I think it goes back to the essence of how do we really change our world? And we're in a world that really wants the instant gratification. So we can't help it. We're like, how fast can I get to the breakthrough? And it's in that nature that we tend to lean into the relief of a moment. And so we will have an aha about something. We'll chase information.

I love this conversation because I think it goes back to the essence of how do we really change our world? And we're in a world that really wants the instant gratification. So we can't help it. We're like, how fast can I get to the breakthrough? And it's in that nature that we tend to lean into the relief of a moment. And so we will have an aha about something. We'll chase information.

I love this conversation because I think it goes back to the essence of how do we really change our world? And we're in a world that really wants the instant gratification. So we can't help it. We're like, how fast can I get to the breakthrough? And it's in that nature that we tend to lean into the relief of a moment. And so we will have an aha about something. We'll chase information.

If only I could figure out what's going on with me, then I'd be free. And so then people find out why. Maybe it was because of something that happened in a past life, or maybe it's something that happened when I was a child. Maybe it happened because of this. And we go back to whatever the awareness is. We have a euphoric breakthrough. It feels amazing.

If only I could figure out what's going on with me, then I'd be free. And so then people find out why. Maybe it was because of something that happened in a past life, or maybe it's something that happened when I was a child. Maybe it happened because of this. And we go back to whatever the awareness is. We have a euphoric breakthrough. It feels amazing.

If only I could figure out what's going on with me, then I'd be free. And so then people find out why. Maybe it was because of something that happened in a past life, or maybe it's something that happened when I was a child. Maybe it happened because of this. And we go back to whatever the awareness is. We have a euphoric breakthrough. It feels amazing.

And then we think, okay, my entire life's going to change now, right?

And then we think, okay, my entire life's going to change now, right?

And then we think, okay, my entire life's going to change now, right?

Oh my gosh, now I totally understand. But the challenge is, and we hear this all the time, and if anybody has heard themselves say this, oh, I know this already. That means you've had a false breakthrough over and over and over again, but you're here trying to get something new because it didn't become a full transformation.

Oh my gosh, now I totally understand. But the challenge is, and we hear this all the time, and if anybody has heard themselves say this, oh, I know this already. That means you've had a false breakthrough over and over and over again, but you're here trying to get something new because it didn't become a full transformation.

Oh my gosh, now I totally understand. But the challenge is, and we hear this all the time, and if anybody has heard themselves say this, oh, I know this already. That means you've had a false breakthrough over and over and over again, but you're here trying to get something new because it didn't become a full transformation.

And that full transformation comes really with a step of or a series of inner and outer actions. You've named some of them already in our conversation. I become aware, but then I accept. I accept what part of me didn't have a good experience that brought me to that aha. Can I accept what happened to me? And can I also accept that I can change and I can move beyond that?

And that full transformation comes really with a step of or a series of inner and outer actions. You've named some of them already in our conversation. I become aware, but then I accept. I accept what part of me didn't have a good experience that brought me to that aha. Can I accept what happened to me? And can I also accept that I can change and I can move beyond that?

And that full transformation comes really with a step of or a series of inner and outer actions. You've named some of them already in our conversation. I become aware, but then I accept. I accept what part of me didn't have a good experience that brought me to that aha. Can I accept what happened to me? And can I also accept that I can change and I can move beyond that?

And from that, am I willing to allow myself to dream again, to have desires, to let a desire move me into the healing, into whoever it is that I'm becoming along the way? And am I willing to move through that stage of really knowing what I want and making decisions, becoming decisive, becoming discerning? That's the key point, right? Am I going to keep moving forward?

And from that, am I willing to allow myself to dream again, to have desires, to let a desire move me into the healing, into whoever it is that I'm becoming along the way? And am I willing to move through that stage of really knowing what I want and making decisions, becoming decisive, becoming discerning? That's the key point, right? Am I going to keep moving forward?

And from that, am I willing to allow myself to dream again, to have desires, to let a desire move me into the healing, into whoever it is that I'm becoming along the way? And am I willing to move through that stage of really knowing what I want and making decisions, becoming decisive, becoming discerning? That's the key point, right? Am I going to keep moving forward?