Joy Taylor

Because that feeling was like... I was like, all right, I guess.

It didn't work out.

I think it depends on what the love was.

Like...

A lot of us, I'll speak for myself, I think we attach anxiety, feelings of anxiety or toxicity with love.

And if you have your heart broken by somebody like that, if you don't feel that thing, you start to think like, oh, like, did I love them?

Because I know they didn't love me because they didn't treat me like they loved me, but...

It seems like this person, Leslie, doesn't... I don't feel as much of the spark or whatever that thing... The butterflies that we create in our mind.

So I think it's important to remember where you were.

Like, as I get older...

I'm so much gentler to my younger self than I used to be because you can only make the decision that you have with information that you have at that time.

And even if you knew you were making a bad decision in that moment, you may not have known how bad of a decision it was or what it was going to cost you.

So anytime that you're going through or processing any of this stuff,

You just have to be gentle with where you are.

Like you're saying, like, you don't, you feel like you didn't love her.

Yeah, you did.

But your, your body heals, your emotions heal, your mind heals.

Like it's how we survive.

We have to, we have to remember.

It's why when we see people that we, we may have not had the best experience with, we're like, damn, you was funny though.