Julia Dhar

So for example, you're like, oh, I actually like didn't write the final version of this question.

I can't say I have a question.

Yeah.

This is why I say to people, you need to have American friends.

Like all of my like Australian British friends, I was like, we need to get you, everybody should be prescribed an American friend because they really, I think I just have like an ability to really talk about themselves more accurately, even if it like might come off as arrogant, like more accurately than people who are humble all the time.

Yeah.

I think that sense of the personal narrative, manifest destiny, where I'm meant to be.

But one of the things I really appreciate is the hype squad.

I'm excited to cheer for other people as well.

Yeah, I know.

Tangents.

We're keeping that in.

I love a chit chat.

I never get anything done because I'm always doing things like this and I'm talking to people.

Anyways, my final question, I want to know, what is one piece of advice that you have for people in their 20s that has nothing to do with what we talked about today?

We are always in the middle of the story.

No matter what has happened to you, you're at the first day of a job or the last day of a relationship or the really messy, annoying middle of trying to create a new habit in your life.

we are always in the middle of the story.

And if you can be curious about how the story unfolds, interested in your own life and the way in which you're a character in other people's life, I think that also frees you up to be the hero of that story and to remind yourself that anything is possible in the rest of the story, no matter what happened in the beginning.

And what was the biggest lesson from your 20s?