Julie Menanno

Okay.

Yeah.

I think I would say attachment style is maybe like a step deeper than the love languages, but very useful because the love languages, you know, if you can start shifting just that part and start showing up for people, you know, start showing up for your partner in the way that

But underneath the surface, it's still about emotional safety, right?

It's just that she gets to emotional safety in a different way that you do.

And so with some couples, the love languages just aren't going to be enough.

We still have some more stuff to clean up underneath the surface.

to get them to understand.

Because a lot of people have blocks to doing their partner's love language, right?

They're like, I'm not going to give her words of affirmation.

She doesn't appreciate me.

I'm just constantly, and this doesn't have to be conscious, but I'm just constantly getting messages I'm failing.

I'm just constantly not feeling appreciated.

And that's going to be really hard for that person to all of a sudden go, oh, well, now I'm going to meet her where she's at.

Okay.

Yeah.

Yeah.

It was hard.

Oh my gosh.

Oh, is that so vulnerable?