Julie Menanno

Yeah.

And it's like,

Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean, honestly, even people that come to me that they know, they're like, yeah, I know I have a fault in this.

Like, they still don't believe they have a fault deep down in there, you know.

No, they really, they really like intellectually know they have a fault.

But emotionally, it's not part...

The two aren't connected.

You almost have to get them emotionally engaged.

And help them understand how they're dealing with their emotions in a way that is impacting their relationship and themselves very negatively.

And then they start to open up to their fault, you know, really, truly, without it just being kind of this like intellectual understanding.

It's so important.

No, because you're always going to have, you know, relationship ruptures.

I always say rupture and repair.

That's what relationships are.

You know, we do, if two close people will have ruptures and you got to be able to repair those ruptures.

And if you can't take accountability for your part in the rupture and see your partner's accountability, because some people take too much accountability, you won't, you know, the ruptures will just start to destroy the relationship.

Yeah.

Absolutely.