Julie Piatt

So I would say that you were completely prepared and that there was great intention behind that.

And just because you're

Your personality didn't prepare.

You were definitely prepared.

It's kind of amazing.

Yours is like dose for an elephant.

Yeah, it's very strong.

It's been profound in many ways, incredible.

Like in one aspect, one perspective, you feel reborn.

You feel like not you, like not the old you.

You feel evolved.

And I've had

a few experiences with you that are literally the first I've ever experienced being your partner of over 25 years.

We were talking about it, and what it is is it's in your presence.

So what I identified it as is that the old you, even in a condition of helping me, you came with that backpack of resentment, of being put upon, of I don't really have the time to do this, I don't really want to do this, I wish she was smarter about this, why isn't she smarter, why doesn't she know, all these kind of things.

And even though you wouldn't say that ever, and I think like many women, we can feel about many levers of energy that's very readily available to us.

So I always felt that separation.

And we did a couple mundane things together.

And it was shocking to me because we don't do any mundane things together.

I said, I'm going to the car wash, and you said, I'll come with you.