Kaelyn Moore

But now you're here having a baby.

Things will get harder.

Get this going now.

I would also add to I mean, I could talk about all of this stuff forever.

I learned so much in the last just from this experience.

But pregnancy is inherently an imbalance of work in a relationship.

One person is using all of their blood and bone and vitamins and minerals and everything in their body to build a human from scratch.

And the other person just isn't doing that.

And so you want to feel as like the pregnant part of the relationship that the other person is still putting in work in other ways to prove that just to balance out, whether it's that they're making more meals for you or that they're in charge of ordering all the whatever that you need or going out and running all the errands.

The power balance just changes so much or like the balance of work, I guess, changes so much.

So I would be curious in this relationship if he's putting in the work, because if he also isn't having any tough conversations with you,

and you're the one carrying the child, changing your diet, changing everything about your life to make sure that you are carrying this child, that is also a big problem.

Huge.

I completely agree.

I'm so glad you said that because if your partner is not participating in any big way, I personally would feel so much resentment.

You just want to feel like they're working as hard as you're working.

And every day feels like you ran a marathon.

So

The other person has to put in a lot of work.

My nightmare.