Kaelyn Moore

She mentioned it.

But also he's now not able to get the jobs that he wanted to get because he didn't finish his degree.

And like, I think there's more to it than that.

I mean, there is a comment from OP in response to the top comment.

He did a huge public proposal at his birthday party with his whole family watching.

So it kind of just froze and said yes.

Probably on purpose because he knew I wouldn't say no like that.

I have felt numb inside ever since.

I'm not going to feel bad for you.

I don't know.

We have a lot more choices in life than just, oh, it was so public that I said yes and now I'm still married to him and also decided to have kids with him.

It just feels like you're not taking any accountability for any of this.

No.

And it doesn't show...

like any growth on his part if he's still festering on this so it's like you can't even say he's grown up he's different he's a better person like he's still like actively like if I find out who it is yes he's not sad that he hurt a kid and almost led to that person's death he's mad that he got caught that is a deep-seated behavior that I think gets mapped onto a bunch of different behaviors in your life

Or like a bunch of different things that you do in your life, right?

You just are mad when you get caught.

You're not upset that you actually did something horrible.

And yeah, he's still that person.

And you have more agency in your life, this poster, than I think you're like willing to admit.