Kail Lowry

Well, this is a heavy hitter.

I don't regret any of my children.

I don't necessarily regret any of the relationships except for Chris.

The relationship with Chris taught me a lot about life and who I am and how to move forward in relationships after him.

If I could have the same exact children but have healed myself in some way to not have given them all their own fathers but have the same exact children, I know that that is impossible.

But that is my biggest regret, I would say, is creating so many different dynamics.

Because a lot of times...

you know, Lincoln, now that he's with me a majority of the time, will say something, I want to do this or whatever.

And then Lux will get really excited and say, Oh, can I come too?

And having to say, Oh, you'll be with your dad that weekend or like they'll come home.

Where are the babies?

And it's like,

That part of it is really challenging.

And so I wish that I would have given myself time and had the tools and would have committed to therapy far before 2019 because I have sort of went sporadically throughout my life, but it wasn't enough to like do anything if I would have just healed certain parts of me before continuing on.

Yeah.

but obviously if i would have done that i wouldn't have had these kids so it's such like a catch-22 it's like a double-edged sword i feel i get a lot of backlash about like oh like you knew who you were laying down with you think you know who you're having a baby with most of the time like i would argue that a lot of people have a child with someone that are married to this person that this baby was planned baby comes it rocks your whole world and you're like now i want a divorce because this isn't the partner that i thought that i was with because i think

A person that you're marrying or that you're in a relationship with as a partner is one thing, but how they are as a parent will show you a completely different side that they probably didn't even know they had or didn't have.

So for me, I think that being very cautious with who you have a child with, also waiting, and I know that sounds so cliche, but like...

You don't have to have a baby in your 20s.

You literally don't have to.