Kail Lowry

And so I think that my choices would have been very different and who I chose to have children with would have been very different had I waited until late 20s or early 30s to continue my mothering journey.

Because, like I said, I mean, they might not even realize that they might be a shit partner when you become a parent.

So I think that just give yourself time like you don't have to rush into having kids.

in some ways along this journey, I've like reflected and been like, okay, well,

I kind of had the best of both worlds because I'll get time without the kids and then I have time with the kids.

But then it's like, now I'm missing huge milestones during that time.

It's really not the best of both worlds.

And at the end of the day, the child is like, you know, Lux, for example, is like wanting to do certain things that his dads are wanting to do certain things over here.

And it's like, that's just not how we move in this house or maybe y'all don't do that over there.

And so like creating that for them, I don't know.

I think the advice would be,

wait until your thirties is my biggest advice.

And I know that sounds so crazy, but like everyone's frontal lobe in theory should be developed by 30.

So it's like, you don't have to rush it.

And I mean,

no offense, but like Becky is in her thirties and she's married and she's struggling.

And I, this, she's been open about it.

So it's not like I'm just like outing her right now, but like go listen to what she has to say on the podcast.

And that's not even a partner problem.

She's struggling with a supportive partner and has openly said she doesn't know how she would do parenthood without the right partner.